Simplybadmouthing your ex is likely to hurt your kids more than your husband, even if you don't think they hear or read what you say.
"Anything written online about an ex-spouse will exist forever—when the children are old enough to read," cautions Newman.7.
It may take a long time to recover—and that's okay.
Julie, 50, from Denver, thought she'd be able to handle her divorce.
If you and your husband have complicated combined assets, you may need additional pros.
Psychotherapist Pandora Mac Lean-Hoover, who's divorced, also suggests finding a therapist who knows firsthand how vulnerable you are.You don’t have to be single if you don’t want to be, Loriann.But if you won’t go outside your comfort zone, I can pretty much assure you that nothing’s going to change. It’s about attracting men, understanding men, and making them want to stick around forever and ever. As to where you meet men, yes, there’s one place that’s more effective in making introductions than 100 visits to Whole Foods and Art History class combined.
So if it’s not already abundantly clear, dating advice is not about WHERE to meet men.
But it's like anything else – there's a way to do it successfully, and it's a great way to meet people you wouldn't normally meet.